One thing that we need to learn in life is to choose our own way or path. Be wise, don't let anyone dictate you, choose what seems fit for you, what are those things that can make your happy, those things that can fill your heart. Make your own way, and don't let somebody made one for you!
We should at least ask who we are, what we need and we want to be, because we cannot live peacefully if we can't even accept ourselves. People will love you because you accept the real you.
"JUST LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.."
Believing and trusting yourself is still the most effective way of surviving our lives. Live happily, be the one who can actually make others and of course yourself happy.
When in doubt pray.. Be Bless always.